Echoing..

Sometimes some dialogs keep echoing in my mind. One of them is this.

Joyce (Kate Capshaw) to Nick (Michael Douglas) in Black Rain (1989): ''A love-hate relationship can last a very long time.''

Some people think love and hate is so extreme that they can not be expressed towards the same subject. Nobody is perfect. I don't believe in pure love with a person. Pure in the sense of no other emotions being mixed in between. I love you but loving you is not the only thing I feel about you. More than likely, I hate some parts of the whole you. To love means accepting you being you and live with the part of you that isn't ideal. Doesn't mean I don't hate you, things I dislike is left unlike. It means I love you and hate you at the same time, but I love you more than I hate you.

As a friend, I think what I love about you outweigh what I don't. There is something in you I hate, like that part of me you dislike exists.

Of course, things can get pretty twisted. Just by looking at the title of a Erasure's song "I love to hate you" can tell one or two. “He who wants a rose must respect the thorn.”
I think we just need to admit our true emotions and we will live better.